I was skyping with a friend earlier today and even though I was right in front of him, there was no eye contact made. It was the weirdest thing. I did not get why one of my really close friends could not look me in the eye and talk to me. Its' not like I was the student who did not know the answer in class, who purposely wanted to avoid eye contact, I was just a normal person sitting having a conversation. It really started to bug me, and it made me even more upset that I couldn't find out why someone would do that. There are so many positives about eye contact, but then I started to realize maybe people cannot keep eye contact because they are not confident in themselves. And maybe that it is their entire life lessons that have made them feel this way. If you are just a passer-byer then there is no need to make confident statement. But I know when someone makes eye contact they mean what they say and are sure of themselves. Even if they are wrong, they still make it seem like they are right. Eye contact needs to be taught more in childhood, because it is one of the best and worst things about a person.
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